About Burial Services

Why a Funeral?

Funerals fill an important role for those mourning the loss of a loved one. By providing surviving family members and friends a caring, supportive environment in which to share thoughts and feelings about the death, funerals are the first step in the healing process. 
 


The ritual of attending a funeral service provides many benefits including:

• Providing a social support system for the bereaved.
• Helping the bereaved understand death is final and that
  death is part of life.
• Integrating the bereaved back into the community.
• Easing the transition to a new life after the death of a loved one.

It is possible to have a full funeral service even for those choosing cremation. The importance of the ritual is in providing a social gathering to help the bereaved begin the healing process.

Types of Tributes

A funeral is so much more than a way to say goodbye; it’s an opportunity to celebrate the life of someone special.

Today, a funeral can be as unique as the individual who is being honored. From simple touches like displaying personal photographs to events created around a favorite pastime, funerals can reflect any aspect of a person’s life and personality.

Following are questions you can use to help you decide how to personalize a service:

• What did the person like to do?
• What was the person like as an individual?
• What was the person like as a professional?
• Was the person spiritual?

• Was the person proud of their heritage?
   

What did the person like to do?

Often people have hobbies that become more than just a casual pastime. Their activity could have been as much a part of who they were as their smile. Why not showcase that important part of their life during the funeral?

Incorporating a hobby can be as simple as:

• Displaying items used for their hobby; e.g. sports equipment, gardening tools, or collections.

• Personalizing the casket or urn with a symbol of their hobby.

• Displaying trophies or awards they won.

• Creating a picture board or presentation featuring pictures of them engaged in their hobby.

• Having someone speak about the person’s passion for the hobby.

By adding these or other personal touches to a funeral, the service becomes a reflection of the person’s life and personality.

What was the person like as an individual ?

One way to enhance a funeral is by bringing a piece of the person’s personality to life. Consider what made that person special, what made them who they were? Then find ways to link their individuality to traditional aspects of a funeral service. 

As an example, an avid cowboy or cowgirl may want to ride of into the sunset one last time.

Tasteful ways to honor their wish include:

• Having a barbecue after the service .

• Having their saddle and riding equipment displayed.

• Playing western music .

Other themes you may want to consider:  Military honors for a member of the armed forces, a last ride for a motorcycle enthusiast, and so many more.